我一直单身,属于剩女,或许对这种故事没什么发言权,不过我一直坚持,如果真的爱一个人,就不能嫁给他。有句电影台词我一直印象很深:Marriage is a business maneouvre。对婚姻抱有美好期待,最后往往都会失望。
我这辈子都忘不了,幼儿园的时候我爸先后几次出轨,有天晚上我妈妈受不了了,半夜把我从床上抱起来离开家。虽然后来我爸追过来,妈妈也因为我还小,心软了跟他回去,现在两个人这么多年也算是相濡以沫,我总是觉得婚姻是容不下爱情的,婚姻的存在就是把两个人之间的爱情一点一点磨干净。
I am single, and I think I will be single for a long time. All of these affairs kill my expectation for marriage. What is the point of getting married when knowing that there are so many factors out there that can cause marriage to collapse.